Hello, how art thou? I do hope life is treating you well, and halfway through the year you've at least achieved one of your new year's resolutions. *ahem ahem*
Though the point is to be able to question and understand our faith enough to test it against the world when the time comes. that's what I believe anyway. I mean Don't you think we need to be able to know why we believe what we believe? Anyway, that's a discussion for another day.
Today, I actually am here to regret to inform you that perrfect imperrfections is ending...
Before you burst into sobs, because I know you love me and this blog that much, and right now you are like,
Lol.
So since I joined university, I've been figuring out my life and it has been super inconsistent resulting in I having not being a very faithful blogger but I am amazed by the support I still got from all my readers and friends. So thank you for that.
Recently after I closed school I got a blogging internship with this blog called Potentash, you can check it out here http://www.potentash.com/
This opportunity has opened my eyes to how much more you can do with writing and it has been a super fun though stretching, and growing experience as well.
One of the things that it has inspired me to do is to grow my blog and expand the things that I talk about so here comes the good news. I am re assessing and adding new content and ideas to this blog in order to grow it.
We have come from far, when last year January I wrote my first Blog post Perfect imperfections and I was pleasantly surprised that people actually enjoyed what I wrote, to now when I want to write things that help ya'al grow more into who you are meant to be.
I Have a new name, Kamilika which means to be Perfected, or more literally to be completed, or finished. So watch out for new details and information starting next week. So yaaay....
Ohh, if you are a photographer, music person, writer in any way, lover of fashion, food, or any other Art and wouldn't mind helping me, -and getting your specific work recognized in the process- please hit me up on Facebook inbox or email me, and I'll give you more info.
Heyyyyyyyyyy so a week late but I have been crazy crazy busy!
Sooooo last night me and my friend had a twilight night *Definition of a
'Twilight night'* -spending the whole night watching all the twilight movies
and crying, laughing, being irritated, and having the girly *aawwwwwww*
moments. Because we both have never watched it before lol
So we had a lot of comments about the
relationship between Edward and Bella. Personally, I think it was really sweet
*dont judge me, twilight haters* but I also think in reality their total
dependency on one another would be maybe kinda, umm, just a little bit, uhh
what to say... unhealthy? :P
They literally had no reason for living
besides each other. I mean in real life they would have to *with all courtesy*
Get a life! But again that doesn't work in their world because they are
technically dead hehe. Besides that I liked the whole idea of Edward not taking
Bella's virtue untill they were married, in a world where guys are all about
how much they can 'tap' a chick or what they can get from her physically or
whatever I think that was really cool to portray. :)
Anyway so right now I am with a group of
my girlfriends and they are gonna help me write this post. We are gonna do a
post about... actually I don't really know what this post is about because are
going to write their own thoughts down, hehe but let us see where this
goes...
REAL-ATIONSHIPS
Tu- In relationships we always try to get
a person that we have dreamed of. AKA our Edward Cullen but are we being their
Bella Swan???? Because i have been waiting for my forever, but i dont
know if i am his yet. Because Bella waited an entire movie for Edward (new
moon) and i cant wait for more than five hours for a reply to a text. And the
fact that i am comparing myself to a vampire love story....is sad. I want
reality, but cant afford it! Because fantasy is so close to my heart.....I have
loved before, I have been hurt before, and i have died before...so my aim is to
become a newborn, an immortal to love!
(She is referring to the twilight
characters for those who don't get it and haven't watched it, do you live under
a rock? *this coming from someone-me- who watched it for the first time
yesterday lol*)
Da- I cant count the number of times
I've daydreamed about my prince charming and how I've talked about boys with my
friends but one day on my way to school i just thought deep down I've kinda
been lying to myself. Cause honestly if my prince charming came riding on a
white horse and asked me to be his one and only i'd probably stand awestruck
for like a whole 30 min and then RUN!!!!!
cause honestly i'm terrified... the
thought of trusting someone with my heart terrifies me... in the back of my
mind I'm thinking " But what if he breaks my heart? what if all this love
I'm giving is all for nothing..." Maybe its cause of my past? i mean I've
been disappointed a lot by my dad and i try my best not to use that as a crutch
cause a lot of kids have gone through that.. but its hard to patch a wound that
the only male figure in your life caused... so after this realization i had to
find a way of dealing with this feeling and I came to the conclusion that i
cant erase the way I feel based on my abilities... so I have chosen to trust
God... He designed my "prince charming" just for me.. and I'm sure He
knew I'd feel this way even before I would.
Ku- My take on relationships may differ
from other people, for me as long as you both love each other and trust each
other and God is the foundation of it all you are good to go. One thing that
irritates me that many people need to understand, is that a relationship is
between two people and not the whole world. If they are happy you should be
happy for them.
Ta- I've been in a couple relationships in
the past and learnt a few things from them, for example it's not advisable to
rush into a relationship until you've gotten to really know the person.Once
you've acquired a friendship with the person, you can then think about being in
a relationship with each other. A lot of people who date their best friends
mostly tend to have a long healthy relationship because you generally know
everything there is to know about each other.
(tihi) I don't
think i'd want to get into another relationship anytime soon until i'm
completely sure this is the man God wants me to spend the rest of my life with.
In the meantime I'd just want to be really good friends with guys and just get
to know them.
Ki- Relationships, haha.. what??... that's the first thing that comes to my
mind. Honestly, relationships are work. You have to commit, change your
priorities, compromise, be considerate, trust, and well, most of all
love. What I don't like is when people rush into relationships knowing
that it won't last. Personally, I'm " forever alone " until I can
completely be myself with the person, and until I can love this person fully.
Also, I'm not looking for my other "half".. After all, I was not born
a half. LOL.. haha.
To me, until I
love myself completely, I can't love another person wholly. My advice to
others, love yourself first, don't look for love in others.
I am so proud of these ladies for being
honest :D Can ya'al relate?
So one more Real-ationships post coming up
next week, then ideas for new topic? inbox, text, comment, follow, and like
perrfect imperrfections on facebook... By lovelies, have an amzing -rest of
weekend-...
